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Tuesday, January 25, 2011

The downtime and uptime of the attentive mind

Recently i m train be to a more observants people , since marketer need to be alert in everything.

here is the way i found out, people have a looks on it :
When we are reading something

and we haven’t taken the text in at all as we have been focusing on something else in our minds. It is an unconscious process, we don’t really have control of it unless we become conscious of it.

Uptime is when we are concentrating on the external world. When we need to focus on driving a road we don’t know, we are in uptime. Our thoughts tend not to drift internally when we need to concentrate on something.

The importance of downtime and uptime is that we can balance them by becoming conscious of our attention. The benefit to you is that you can become more focused in the external world (uptime) and more relaxed in your internal world (downtime).

Being focused

After an argument, do you ever have conversations in your head, about what you could have said to that person if you were calmer or had been a little more quick witted? We all have thoughts like this every day. I was driving down to work the other day when another driver cut in front of me, I then proceeded to think of a whole scenario whereby I had an argument with the driver, what I would say, what he would say, the police getting involved, how my wife would feel, how the kids would react…….it was crazy. I had a full blown argument in my head, I felt the emotions, I saw the outcomes of different scenes and I put myself into a state of anger all because someone had cut in front of me. From that one event I wasted so much energy, wasted time thinking about what might have happened, put myself into a bad mood, and it could have been such a shit day had I not caught myself in time. I thought of something happy in my life and quickly changed the state, but you can see how being in downtime when we should be in uptime can change us.

If we are focused and make ourselves aware of what we are doing at any particular moment we can learn to concentrate better and have a more productive life. In buddhism this is called ‘being in the moment’ or ‘mindfulness’.

Becoming more focused in uptime

  1. To start becoming more focused take it a step at a time. For the next week make a point to become aware of your surroundings on the hour every waking hour. So for example your are in the office and it’s 10 O’Clock become aware of your surroundings. Become aware of the people sitting next to you, become aware of the caller you are speaking to, their voice, their tone, their state. Just try and take in everything around you and notice little things like the colour of the poster on the wall, the smell in the office. This will kickstart your uptime focussing.
  2. After 2 or 3 weeks of general focussing become more specific. Notice what people are wearing from day to day, notice their hairstyles, notice their moods, notice the changes in the office. Also begin to notice your thoughts at any given moment, how are you feeling? Don’t question it, just notice it. Pretty soon you will start to see patterns in your thinking. You are happier around particular people, you are happier at a particular time of day.
  3. After another 2-3 weeks focus on the job your are doing. If you are a plumber, notice the tools you are using and how they are used, concentrate of every turn of the wrench, listen to your breathing as you are working, every time your thoughts drift internally pull them back to the moment. It can help to say out loud or internally what you are doing: “ I am typing on my keyboard”, “ I am driving to work, I can see a blue car in front of me” etc
  4. Over time you will become much more used to being mindful and it will happen automatically. However do not get complacent, every now and again remind yourself to be in the moment.

Being more relaxed in downtime

  1. By being more aware and concentrating more in uptime you will automatically become more relaxed in downtime. Ultimate downtime is sleeping and you will find your sleep is deeper therefore you are more relaxed and refreshed in the morning.
  2. Also practicing simple meditation will greatly enhance your downtime and life in general. 15 minutes per day in downtime meditation will greatly enhance your concentration, focus, visualisation, law of attraction and your life in general.
  3. I listen to guided meditations for my downtime meditation and use it in the morning and afternoon.
  4. Take downtime breaks at work. As I am out in the car visiting clients a lot of the time I take a few 10 minute breaks on a hill overlooking countryside and it’s great just to sit there and look out. I find it refreshes my mind and prepares me for the next few hours ahead.

Downtime and uptime go hand in hand and you can greatly enhance your life if you practice focused mindful uptime and more relaxing downtime. Why not try it for 21

Sunday, January 23, 2011

days after exam .......

After Annual dinner went to sing k session , and it was fun because i long time did not sing k dee..LOL

picture with Kim , Willaim and ANg
my best buddy in office .love her so much (Muck)


buddies in office during Dinner
Family picture ..

My si fu in office .
will post more my days after exam ..

Sunday, January 9, 2011

Keri Hilson - Pretty Girl Rock

I can do the pretty girl rock rock rock
Do the pretty girl rock rock rock
Now what's your name?

My name is Keri, I'm so very
Fly oh my it's a little bit scary
Boys wanna marry looking at my derri-
erre, you can stare but if you touch it I'ma bury

Pretty as a picture
Sweeter than a swisher
Mad cause I'm cuter than the girl that's witcha

I don't gotta talk about it baby you can see it
But if you want I'll be happy to repeat it

My name is Keri, I'm so very
Fly oh my it's a little bit scary
Boys wanna marry looking at my derri-
erre, you can stare but if you touch it I'ma bury

Pretty as a picture
Sweeter than a swisher
Mad cause I'm cuter than the girl that's witcha
I can talk about it cause I know that I'm pretty
And if you know it too then ladies sing it with me

All eyes on me when I walk in,
No question that this girl's a 10
Don't hate me cause I'm beautiful
Don't hate me cause I'm beautiful
My walk my talk the way I drip
It's not my fault so please don't trip
Don't hate me cause I'm beautiful
Don't hate me cause I'm beautiful

Aye, now do the pretty girl rock rock rock
Do the pretty girl rock rock rock
Do the pretty girl rock rock
All my ladies do the pretty girl rock rock rock
Do the pretty girl rock rock rock
Do the pretty girl rock rock rock
Do the pretty girl rock


Now where you at?

If you're looking for me you can catch me (pass by)
Cameras flashing
Bet he turned his head just as soon as I passed him
Girls think I'm conceited cause I know I'm attractive
Don't worry about what I think, why don't you ask him?

Get yourself together don't hate (never do it),
jealousy is the ugliest trait (don't ever do it)
I can talk about it cause I know that I'm pretty
And if you know it too then ladies sing it with me

All eyes on me when I walk in
No question that this girl's a 10
Don't hate me cause I'm beautiful
Don't hate me cause I'm beautiful
My walk my talk the way I drip
It's not my fault so please don't trip
Don't hate me cause I'm beautiful
Don't hate me cause I'm beautiful

Doing the pretty girl rock rock rock
Do the pretty girl rock rock rock
Do the pretty girl rock rock rock
Do the pretty girl rock rock
All my ladies do the pretty girl rock rock
Get low witcha pretty girl rock rock
Steal the show witcha pretty girl rock rock
All my ladies do the pretty girl rock rock
Sing it with me now

All eyes on me when I walk in,
No question that this girl's a 10
Don't hate me cause I'm beautiful.
Don't hate me cause I'm beautiful.
My walk my talk the way I drip
It's not my fault so please don't trip
Don't hate me cause I'm beautiful
Don't hate me cause I'm beautiful [x2]

Love is Blind

LOve is BLind , and this is so true
recently , many of my friends being cheated , played by those those bad guys...
BUt what to do , they still fall in love on the guy...
when i heard this , i really feel so angry , aggravated,and indignant...
those guys are really heart breaker ....
i hate those people
fooling people feeling!!!!!!
sometime , people just dont want to wake up to realise see through how bad that guy is
they still believe what the guy promised , said , and they will still think that the guy wont cheat them .......
come on....
Girls.....wake up from that dream pleas....
dont always stay in that uncertain situation .
(which more then friend , but not a couple yet)
if the guy really love you , they will do whatever for u
and not something!!!!!
and i always remember what UNcle William told me (My dancing teacher )
he said "shu er , must find a guy that he love u more , more then u love him ya""
this sentences also remind me..
and if the guy really love u more , he will do whatever for u , whatever u like he will know that ,
every single moment will text you and ask you what you doing there .and for those guy that not love u that much ..
he wont do that !!
they will text u , when they feel boring ...
not from bottom heart
so my pretty girl friends there ....
remember say no to those bad guy although sometime they really can make u feel touch .
but
just a moment
and this moment is unrealistic
go find a real guy
that he care you more ........
dont stay in that fairly tale dream again
although that dream make you feel good..
but remember
that is unrealistic !!!!!!



Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Firework-Katy Perry

Do you ever feel like a plastic bag
Drifting throught the wind
Wanting to start again

Do you ever feel, feel so paper thin
Like a house of cards
One blow from caving in

Do you ever feel already buried deep
Six feet under scream
But no one seems to hear a thing

Do you know that tehre's still a chance for you
Cause there's a spark in you

You just gotta ignite the light
And let it shine
Just own the night
Like the Fourth of July

Cause baby you're a firework
Come on show 'em what your worth
Make 'em go "Oh, oh, oh!"
As you shoot across the sky-y-y

Baby you're a firework
Come on let your colors burst
Make 'em go "Oh, oh, oh!"
You're gunna leave 'em fallin' down-own-own

You don't have to feel like a waste of space
You're original, cannot be replaced
If you only knew what the future holds
After a hurricane comes a rainbow

Maybe you're reason why all the doors are closed
So you can open one that leads you to the perfect road

Like a lightning bolt, your heart will blow
And when it's time, you'll know

You just gotta ignite the light
And let it shine
Just own the night
Like the Fourth of July

Cause baby you're a firework
Come on show 'em what your worth
Make 'em go "Oh, oh, oh!"
As you shoot across the sky-y-y

Baby you're a firework
Come on slet your colors burst
Make 'em go "Oh, oh, oh!"
You're gunna leave 'em fallin' down-own-own

Boom, boom, boom
Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon
It's always been inside of you, you, you
And now it's time to let it through

Cause baby you're a firework
Come on show 'em what your worth
Make 'em go "Oh, oh, oh!"
As you shoot across the sky-y-y

Baby you're a firework
Come on slet your colors burst
Make 'em go "Oh, oh, oh!"
You're gunna leave 'em goin "Oh, oh, oh!"

Boom, boom, boom
Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon
Boom, boom, boom
Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon



Don't wait for that guy, he isn't worth it!!!

Sunday, January 2, 2011

情歌没有告诉你


有些事你不必问 有些人你不必等
许多细节已淹没 还记得那副歌
情话被现实反驳 还不如一句情歌
安慰了寂寞 也喂养寂寞
听著那熟悉前奏
回忆逆流成河 淹没你我
那些情歌 是我 为你唱过
别后那片天空
没有如果 没说的 希望你会懂
爱恨忐忑 是你 陪我走过
情歌没有告诉你我
只唱勇气没勇气还是没结果
在每个梦醒时分 谁会陪你数伤痕
许多细节都复活 当唱起那首歌
有些话并不能说 却能够不断安可
它让你感动 也让你心痛
那些情歌 是我 为你唱过
曾触摸的天空
那些悸动 没说的 用微笑带过
爱恨忐忑 是你 陪我走过
情歌没有告诉你我
只唱勇气没勇气还是没结果
爱是什么 感动宇宙
感动不了你又算什么
这不是歌 是寂寞的出口
那些情歌 是我 为你唱过
再没有对错
那些温柔 希望你会懂
那些情歌 是我 为你唱过
我们都该快乐
那些沈默 没说的 不要变负荷
爱恨忐忑 是你 陪我哼过
情歌没有告诉你我
再舍不得没有我还是不会的
那些情歌 是我
如果你会 想我
那些情歌 是我
没告诉你 是我

last day of 2010

Morning went to Low yat with my college Jie Mui gang (Serene, Mei Quin , Venise, ME, Hollie and Andrew Aw AW) LOL* although he is the only guy with so many leng lui there ...

Quin , i really long time did not catch up with u dee..Future lawyer
Friendship 4 ever (plus my sie mui PAm)




at night went to the curve with my marketing buddies
let introduce this leng lui to u named :Maggie Kok MEi Kay
will miss her in future because she leaving us soon dee..
MAGGIE will miss u so so so much ya
wish u all the best in UQ
At VIVO dinner

And at the curve meet my studio friend_ONN rei and will miss him also
because he will stop dancing from this year onward ..
A group picture of us .....HAppy NEw year people
Jason and i ...
MIke and i

Present ex-change day with college buddies

Although Christmas was over , my college buddies plan to have a present exchange session as for each people have a good memories for 2010.

people wish u all enjoy that session and wish u guys like what u got for that ya.

Ivan -receive my present , and he like this very much ..haha
Me - receive NAi Hoe 's gift .thanks ya
Kor Kor JAck -receive KL's gift

MArie -Kelvin 's gift
Kelvin -Marie 's gift
Nai hoe-receive Ivan's gift
Andrew -receive David 's gift
Maggie :receive jack 's gift
David -Maggie 's gift
Kl -receive Andrew Aw AW 's soft toy



And a favorite place that we like to have lunch _CHilllAx